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Wander: A Memoir of Letting go

by Ryan Benz

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First published2023
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Wander

A Memoir of Letting go

by Ryan Benz

LuvemBooks Verdict

Best for: Readers in their thirties or forties who feel the gap between outward achievement and inner fulfillment, are drawn to the Appalachian Trail as a setting, and came to the memoir genre through books like Wild or Eat, Pray, Love.

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Wander: A Memoir of Letting Go is Ryan Benz's account of walking more than two thousand miles on the Appalachian Trail from Georgia to Maine — a physical and spiritual reckoning with the gap between outward success and inner meaning. A B.R.A.G. Medallion Award winner praised for its raw, authentic tone, it earns strong comparisons to Wild and Eat, Pray, Love and will resonate most with readers at a crossroads or drawn to deliberate-living philosophy. The key caveat: the transformation arc — hollow success, wilderness journey, restored purpose — follows a well-established genre template, so readers seeking an unconventional narrative shape may find the trajectory familiar.
Is it worth reading?
Wander earns its place in Appalachian Trail literature through candor rather than spectacle, and its B.R.A.G. Medallion recognition signals genuine quality among independently published titles. Its dual register — confessional memoir and broader inspiration — is a structural strength that Independent Book Review called 'an encouraging read for the dreamer in each of us,' and the specific Georgia-to-Maine framework gives the self-discovery arc a concrete, sustained shape. The main caveat is that the transformation template (outward success, inner emptiness, wilderness revelation) is well-worn in this genre, so readers seeking a more unconventional narrative shape may find the trajectory familiar. For the right reader — someone at a crossroads, drawn to the Appalachian Trail, or already engaged with titles like Wild — it is a resonant and purposeful read.
Similar books
Readers drawn to Wander will find strong company in the curated titles below. Hello My Name is Sharkbait: A 2,000-Mile Adventure on the Appalachian Trail by Michael Neiman shares the same trail and mile-count, making it a natural companion read. For the broader 'leave it all behind and find yourself' memoir strand, Glennon Doyle's Untamed — with its unflinching examination of authenticity and self-reinvention — is the closest thematic match. Melissa L. Cook's The Call of the Last Frontier and Ellen Barone's I Could Live Here both speak to the impulse to trade conventional life for a more deliberate existence in a wild setting. And for readers interested in the raw, confessional register of a life examined honestly, Matthew Perry's Friends, Lovers and the Big, Terrible Thing offers a very different backdrop but a similarly unflinching personal reckoning.
Who should read this?
Wander is designed, as LuvemBooks' assessment notes, for readers who feel the tension between external achievement and internal fulfillment — what the book frames as the gap between a 'successful' life and a meaningful one. It will resonate particularly with those at a crossroads, those drawn to the Appalachian Trail as a setting, and readers who entered the genre through titles like Wild. As a meditation on purpose, authenticity, and intentionality, it also suits readers interested in the philosophy of deliberate living, not just the physical logistics of long-distance hiking. Readers who prefer memoirs built around sharp literary craft, narrative distance, or a wide cast of characters, or who come to the genre seeking sociological or environmental breadth, are not the primary audience.
About Ryan Benz
Ryan Benz is a New Jersey-based author, speaker, and mindfulness teacher. After hiking more than 2,000 miles on the Appalachian Trail, he channeled that experience into Wander: A Memoir of Letting Go and Walking 2,000 Miles to a Meaningful Life. He uses adventure storytelling to teach mindfulness for schools, organizations, and through mentorship.
What are the main themes?
Wander centres on purpose, authenticity, and intentionality — the tension between a life that looks successful from the outside and one that feels meaningful from within. Benz also explores the nature of adventure and self-discovery, framing the Appalachian Trail not as escape but as a return to a truer self. A secondary but structural theme is the invitation to deliberate living: the book is designed not only as personal confession but as a roadmap for readers to interrogate their own paths, closing the gap between external achievement and internal fulfillment.
What is the B.R.A.G. Medallion?
The B.R.A.G. Medallion is an award given to independently published books that meet the organization's quality standard — it exists specifically to recognize excellence in the self-published and small-press space, where titles do not go through traditional publishing gatekeepers. Wander's status as a B.R.A.G. Medallion winner is cited in LuvemBooks' assessment as a meaningful marker of recognized quality for an independently published title. It signals that the memoir has cleared an external editorial bar beyond the author's own judgment.
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By his early thirties, Ryan Benz had built a conventionally successful life yet felt, as the record states, empty, exhausted, and dissatisfied. His response was to leave that life behind and walk more than two thousand miles along the Appalachian Trail from Georgia to Maine, and Wander is the account of that journey — both the physical demands and the interior reckoning it produced. Published in September 2023 by Permission to Dream Publishing, the memoir frames the trek not as escape but as a return, with Benz moving closer, mile by mile, to what he describes as his true self. Beyond the personal confession, the book doubles as a broader invitation, serving — in the publisher's framing — as a roadmap for readers to examine the potential within themselves and choose the path truest to their own being.

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