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Best for
Women navigating questions of identity, faith, and self-determination who are drawn to confessional, first-person memoir that frames personal transformation as a broader invitation to examine whether one's own life choices are freely made or quietly shaped by expectation.
Worth it if
You respond to memoir that grounds philosophical arguments about societal conditioning in specific, lived personal moments — and welcome a book whose three-part structure ("Caged," "Keys," "Free") offers a clear, coherent arc through intimate, fragmented reflection.
Skip if
You prefer personal memoir to stay clearly personal rather than prescriptive — readers who don't share Doyle's framework around faith and feminism, or those outside the book's primary female audience, may find its confident, template-like declarations more limiting than liberating.
What readers & critics say
Kirkus Reviews called it "a lucid, inspiring chronicle of female empowerment and the rewards of self-awareness and renewal," awarding it a GET IT verdict. According to Wikipedia's entry on the memoir, critics described it as "a testament to female empowerment and self-love, with an endearing coming-out story at the center," predicting it would delight readers.
“Lucid, inspiring chronicle of female empowerment and the rewards of self-awareness and renewal.”
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- Is it worth reading?
- For readers — particularly women — navigating questions of identity, self-determination, or the gap between the life they are living and the one they might choose for themselves, Untamed offers a direct, personally grounded framework. The memoir's documented reception — a #1 New York Times bestseller, a Reese's Book Club selection, over two million copies sold — reflects exceptional reach and cultural resonance that is hard to dismiss. The chief caveat is its prescriptive undertone: Doyle's path is presented with a confidence that can feel like a template rather than a testimony, which sits uneasily with readers who prefer memoir to stay clearly personal. Those who share Doyle's frameworks around faith, feminism, and social expectation will likely find it liberating; those who do not may find its confident declarations limiting.
- Similar books
- Readers drawn to Untamed's confessional, identity-driven memoir style will find strong companions in the curated selection below. Tara Westover's Educated traces a similarly harrowing process of self-construction against a constraining upbringing, while Yeonmi Park's In Order to Live documents a profound personal reckoning with freedom and identity under extreme circumstances. Michelle Obama's Becoming shares Untamed's interest in a public woman charting her own terms, and Glennon Doyle's own earlier memoir Carry On, Warrior covers the foundational experiences that Untamed builds upon. For readers interested in raw, voice-driven personal testimony, Matthew Perry's Friends, Lovers and the Big Terrible Thing and Lisa-Marie Presley and Riley Keough's From Here to the Great Unknown offer strikingly candid accounts of lives lived under pressure.
- Who should read this?
- Untamed is most directly written for women navigating questions of identity, self-determination, and the tension between the life society expects and the life one might genuinely choose. Its framework — drawing on faith, feminism, and the experience of leaving behind a constructed role as wife, Christian, and public figure — speaks most immediately to readers who recognise that tension in their own lives. Book clubs are a particularly natural fit; Doyle actively encourages groups to engage with her directly. Readers outside that primary audience, or those who prefer a clear boundary between personal testimony and universal instruction, may find the memoir's confident prescriptive register less comfortable.
- About Glennon Doyle
- Glennon Doyle is an American author and queer activist known for her books Untamed, Love Warrior, We Can Do Hard Things, and Carry On, Warrior.
- Why is this book trending?
- Untamed is currently receiving fresh attention following the spotlight on a newly highlighted audio collection of Glennon Doyle's earlier essays. The collection is being pitched as a companion listen for fans of Doyle's voice and style, drawing listeners back to Untamed and keeping her work actively in the cultural conversation right now.
- What are the main themes?
- Untamed's central themes are societal conditioning, identity, and the reclamation of self — specifically Doyle's argument that women are trained from an early age to abandon their truest selves in order to occupy the roles society assigns them. Faith and its renegotiation, motherhood, and the tension between public persona and private truth are woven throughout. The memoir also engages with queer identity and desire through Doyle's account of falling in love with Abby Wambach. Underlying all of these is a question the book poses directly to the reader: 'Who were you before the world told you who to be?'
- How does this compare to Love Warrior?
- Love Warrior — Doyle's prior memoir and an Oprah's Book Club selection that also reached #1 on the New York Times bestseller list — covers the earlier chapter of her story, focusing on her marriage and recovery from addiction and bulimia. Untamed picks up where that story ends and expands its scope considerably, moving from a personal account of a specific marriage into a broader philosophical reckoning with identity, societal conditioning, and freedom. Readers who engaged with Love Warrior will find Untamed both a continuation and a significant escalation in ambition.
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Skip if you want memoir that stays firmly personal and resists delivering universal instruction or a prescriptive life template.
Editorial Review
Untamed is a #1 New York Times bestselling memoir by Glennon Doyle — a Reese's Book Club selection that has sold over two million copies — charting Doyle's journey from a constrained life shaped by others' expectations to one built on her own desire, intuition, and identity, anchored by the moment she fell in love with retired soccer star Abby Wambach.
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Why It’s Trending
Glennon Doyle's Untamed Getting Fresh Attention via New Audio Collection
A newly highlighted audio collection of Glennon Doyle's earlier essays is drawing readers back to Untamed. It's pitched as a companion listen for fans of her voice and style, which is keeping her work in the conversation right now.




