8 min read
4.5
· 89,997 Amazon ratingsShare This Review

Our review
My Friends
My Friends: A Novel by Fredrik Backman Review: A Tender, Dual-Timeline Celebration of Friendship
My Friends is Fredrik Backman's dual-timeline novel about four teenage friends whose fierce bond — and the art it inspires — reaches across twenty-five years to change a stranger's life. Published by Atria Books in May 2025, it became a #1 New York Times bestseller, won the 2025 Goodreads Choice Award for Best Fiction, and earned starred critical praise for its empathy and emotional range.
LuvemBooks Verdict
Best for
Readers who loved the community warmth and grief-soaked humour of Backman's A Man Called Ove or Anxious People and are drawn to stories where a single work of art — here, a painting of three figures on a pier — serves as the hinge between generations and strangers.
Worth it if
Worth reading if you have patience for a ruminative dual-timeline structure and respond to Backman's signature blend of wistful tenderness, comedy, and emotional gut-punches — especially if the idea of friendship as a generative, almost artistic force resonates with you.
Skip if
Skip it if you need plot momentum to stay engaged, have found Backman's emotional register too sentimental in the past, or are put off by a 448-page novel that asks you to hold two timelines in patient suspension before they converge.
What readers & critics say
Kirkus Reviews (starred) calls the novel "humorous, poignant, and always life-affirming," while BookPage (starred, as quoted via byrdsbooks.com) writes that Backman "has created a novel that celebrates the beauty of being alive," and reviewers starred it (via byrdsbooks.com) declares "the author is at the top of his game." The Chicago Review of Books (chireviewofbooks.com) describes it as a tender novel that hits its stride when Louisa's present-day story intertwines with the four friends' past, praising its exploration of trust, friendship, and unexpected hope.
“Backman has created indelible characters and laugh-out-loud moments — a witty writer and a keen observer.”
— Kirkus ReviewsAsk LuvemBooks
Was this helpful?
- Is it worth reading?
- For readers who connect with Backman's signature blend of warmth, wit, and emotional depth, My Friends represents the author at the top of his game — a phrase used verbatim in a starred Publishers Weekly assessment. BookPage, also in a starred review, wrote that Backman has 'created a novel that celebrates the beauty of being alive' by focusing his empathy on the power of art and friendship. The dual-timeline architecture and the painting as a generational hinge give it a distinctive shape that sets it apart from his earlier work. The key caveat: at 448 pages with a ruminative pace, it rewards patient readers rather than those seeking plot momentum.
- Similar books
- Readers drawn to My Friends will find kindred titles in the curated selection below. Taylor Jenkins Reid's Malibu Rising shares the multigenerational sweep and emotionally charged ensemble dynamics. Elizabeth Strout's Tell Me Everything offers the same quiet, empathetic examination of human connection and grief. Kaveh Akbar's Martyr! and Maggie Shipstead's Great Circle both use a central artistic or life-defining obsession as a narrative hinge across time — much as Backman uses the painting. Backman's own A Man Called Ove and Anxious People are the most natural on-ramp for readers new to his voice, though they are not currently in the LuvemBooks catalogue.
- Who should read this?
- My Friends is best suited to adult readers who responded to the community-and-grief dynamics of Backman's A Man Called Ove or Anxious People. Those drawn to stories where a single object — here, a painting of three figures on a pier — serves as a hinge between generations and strangers will find the premise particularly compelling. It also appeals to readers interested in friendship as a generative, creative force rather than merely a comfort, and to those who enjoy dual-timeline structures that reward patience. Readers who prefer plot-driven fiction or find blended sentiment-and-comedy styles uneven should approach with managed expectations.
- What are the main themes?
- My Friends explores friendship as a generative, almost artistic force — the idea that knowing another person so completely that the bond itself becomes capable of creating something lasting. Loss, grief, the complications of love, and the possibility of second chances are consistent Backman preoccupations that run through the novel. The centrality of the painting — depicting three tiny figures on a pier — focuses the thematic lens on visual art as a vessel for memory, intimacy, and unexpected hope. The Chicago Review of Books describes the book as 'a tender heartwarming novel exploring the challenges and joys of life itself, of loving and trusting others, of unexpected change and unexpected hope.'
- Is it a good book club pick?
- My Friends is a strong book club choice, with its dual-timeline structure, the symbolic painting, and its themes of friendship, art, loss, and unexpected hope all generating rich discussion. Its Fallon Book Club Pick designation affirms its suitability for group reading, and its presence on year-end lists from USA Today, Marie Claire, and Real Simple indicates broad appeal across readerships. The 448-page length and ruminative pacing are worth noting for clubs that prefer brisker reads, but the thematic depth more than compensates for the time investment.
- What awards has it won?
- My Friends has an exceptional awards record for a 2025 novel. It spent twelve weeks on the New York Times Best Seller List, reaching number one on August 17, 2025, and won the 2025 Goodreads Choice Award for Best Fiction. It was shortlisted for a British Book Award for Fiction Book of the Year and named a May Indie Next List Top Pick by the American Booksellers Association. The audiobook won the Libby Audiobook of the Year and received an Audie Award nomination for Fiction. Starred reviews from both BookPage and Publishers Weekly round out a reception described as emphatic.
Summarize this book
Follow up
Synthesized from verified book data & published reviews · How we review
What would you like to know about My Friends?
Answers come from our editorial notes on this book. If we haven't covered something, we'll say so.
Readers often ask
Our Review
What the Novel Is and What It Does
Background and Publication Context

Critical Reception and Honours
Themes and Emotional Register
Who Will Find It Most Rewarding
Sources & Further Reading
The key facts and claims in this review are grounded in the retrieved, verified sources listed below.
- 1
en.wikipedia.org
- 2
byrdsbooks.com
- 3
- 4
bookbrowse.com
- 5
englewoodreview.org
- 6
michelleardillo.com
- 7
barlinsbooks.com
- 8
city-journal.org
- 9
- 10
beta.thestorygraph.com
- 11
- 12
bookreporter.com
Age & Reading Level
Recommended age
Adult
2 content notes · who it suits
Content to know about
Skip if you prefer plot-driven fiction over ruminative, emotionally layered storytelling
Reader reviews
Be one of the first readers to answer.
Read it? Was it right for you?
Books like My Friends
Curated picks for readers who enjoyed My Friends, with our reasoning for each match.
More by Fredrik Backman
If you liked My Friends






