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My Friends

My Friends: A Novel by Fredrik Backman Review: A Tender, Dual-Timeline Celebration of Friendship

My Friends is Fredrik Backman's dual-timeline novel about four teenage friends whose fierce bond — and the art it inspires — reaches across twenty-five years to change a stranger's life. Published by Atria Books in May 2025, it became a #1 New York Times bestseller, won the 2025 Goodreads Choice Award for Best Fiction, and earned starred critical praise for its empathy and emotional range.

Adultgrief and loss · themes of friendship, mortality, and creative legacy

LuvemBooks Verdict

Best for

Readers who loved the community warmth and grief-soaked humour of Backman's A Man Called Ove or Anxious People and are drawn to stories where a single work of art — here, a painting of three figures on a pier — serves as the hinge between generations and strangers.

Worth it if

Worth reading if you have patience for a ruminative dual-timeline structure and respond to Backman's signature blend of wistful tenderness, comedy, and emotional gut-punches — especially if the idea of friendship as a generative, almost artistic force resonates with you.

Skip if

Skip it if you need plot momentum to stay engaged, have found Backman's emotional register too sentimental in the past, or are put off by a 448-page novel that asks you to hold two timelines in patient suspension before they converge.

Kirkus Reviews (starred) calls the novel "humorous, poignant, and always life-affirming," while BookPage (starred, as quoted via byrdsbooks.com) writes that Backman "has created a novel that celebrates the beauty of being alive," and reviewers starred it (via byrdsbooks.com) declares "the author is at the top of his game." The Chicago Review of Books (chireviewofbooks.com) describes it as a tender novel that hits its stride when Louisa's present-day story intertwines with the four friends' past, praising its exploration of trust, friendship, and unexpected hope.

“Backman has created indelible characters and laugh-out-loud moments — a witty writer and a keen observer.”

— Kirkus Reviews
Sources: Kirkus Reviews, Chicago Review of Books, Byrds Books, BookBrowse, Book Reporter, Englewood Review, I've Read This, Barlin's Books, Screenwise, Book Thoughts from Bed
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My Friends is Fredrik Backman's dual-timeline novel tracing the fierce bond of four teenage friends — Joar, Ted, Ali, and a fourth who becomes a painter — whose friendship produces a painting so resonant it alters the life of a young woman named Louisa twenty-five years later. A #1 New York Times bestseller and winner of the 2025 Goodreads Choice Award for Best Fiction, the novel earned starred reviews from BookPage and Publishers Weekly for Backman's empathy and storytelling craft at their peak. It is ideal for readers who prize emotional depth and ruminative pacing over plot momentum, though those new to Backman's warm, wistful, comedic register may need time to calibrate before the novel fully lands.
Is it worth reading?
For readers who connect with Backman's signature blend of warmth, wit, and emotional depth, My Friends represents the author at the top of his game — a phrase used verbatim in a starred Publishers Weekly assessment. BookPage, also in a starred review, wrote that Backman has 'created a novel that celebrates the beauty of being alive' by focusing his empathy on the power of art and friendship. The dual-timeline architecture and the painting as a generational hinge give it a distinctive shape that sets it apart from his earlier work. The key caveat: at 448 pages with a ruminative pace, it rewards patient readers rather than those seeking plot momentum.
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Readers drawn to My Friends will find kindred titles in the curated selection below. Taylor Jenkins Reid's Malibu Rising shares the multigenerational sweep and emotionally charged ensemble dynamics. Elizabeth Strout's Tell Me Everything offers the same quiet, empathetic examination of human connection and grief. Kaveh Akbar's Martyr! and Maggie Shipstead's Great Circle both use a central artistic or life-defining obsession as a narrative hinge across time — much as Backman uses the painting. Backman's own A Man Called Ove and Anxious People are the most natural on-ramp for readers new to his voice, though they are not currently in the LuvemBooks catalogue.
Who should read this?
My Friends is best suited to adult readers who responded to the community-and-grief dynamics of Backman's A Man Called Ove or Anxious People. Those drawn to stories where a single object — here, a painting of three figures on a pier — serves as a hinge between generations and strangers will find the premise particularly compelling. It also appeals to readers interested in friendship as a generative, creative force rather than merely a comfort, and to those who enjoy dual-timeline structures that reward patience. Readers who prefer plot-driven fiction or find blended sentiment-and-comedy styles uneven should approach with managed expectations.
What are the main themes?
My Friends explores friendship as a generative, almost artistic force — the idea that knowing another person so completely that the bond itself becomes capable of creating something lasting. Loss, grief, the complications of love, and the possibility of second chances are consistent Backman preoccupations that run through the novel. The centrality of the painting — depicting three tiny figures on a pier — focuses the thematic lens on visual art as a vessel for memory, intimacy, and unexpected hope. The Chicago Review of Books describes the book as 'a tender heartwarming novel exploring the challenges and joys of life itself, of loving and trusting others, of unexpected change and unexpected hope.'
Is it a good book club pick?
My Friends is a strong book club choice, with its dual-timeline structure, the symbolic painting, and its themes of friendship, art, loss, and unexpected hope all generating rich discussion. Its Fallon Book Club Pick designation affirms its suitability for group reading, and its presence on year-end lists from USA Today, Marie Claire, and Real Simple indicates broad appeal across readerships. The 448-page length and ruminative pacing are worth noting for clubs that prefer brisker reads, but the thematic depth more than compensates for the time investment.
What awards has it won?
My Friends has an exceptional awards record for a 2025 novel. It spent twelve weeks on the New York Times Best Seller List, reaching number one on August 17, 2025, and won the 2025 Goodreads Choice Award for Best Fiction. It was shortlisted for a British Book Award for Fiction Book of the Year and named a May Indie Next List Top Pick by the American Booksellers Association. The audiobook won the Libby Audiobook of the Year and received an Audie Award nomination for Fiction. Starred reviews from both BookPage and Publishers Weekly round out a reception described as emphatic.
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My Friends follows two intertwined timelines separated by roughly twenty-five years. In the past, four teenage friends — Joar, Ted, Ali, and a fourth who becomes a painter — form an extraordinarily close bond that produces a painting: three tiny figures sitting at the end of a long pier, so intimate it becomes one of the most famous images of its kind. In the present, a young woman named Louisa encounters that painting and finds her life altered by it. The novel, published by Atria Books in May 2025, explores what it means to know another person so completely that the bond itself becomes a creative act capable of outlasting its makers.

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What the Novel Is and What It Does

My Friends centres on two intertwined storylines separated by roughly twenty-five years. In the past, four teenage friends — Joar, Ted, Ali, and a fourth who becomes a painter — form a bond of extraordinary closeness.
That friendship produces a work of art: a painting depicting three tiny figures sitting at the end of a long pier, so intimate and precise that it becomes one of the most famous images of its kind. In the present, a young woman named Louisa encounters that painting and finds her life altered by it.
Chapters alternate between the two timelines, with the past belonging to the four teenagers and the present belonging to Louisa — a structure designed, according to Chicago Review of Books contributor Karen Bellovich, to explore what it means to know another person so completely that the bond itself becomes a creative act capable of outlasting its makers.

Background and Publication Context

Backman, the Swedish author best known for A Man Called Ove and Anxious People, wrote My Friends originally in Swedish, but in a notable reversal the English-language edition — published by Atria Books on May 6, 2025 — preceded the Swedish edition from Norstedts, which followed in August 2025. Backman has spoken candidly about the book's personal weight: in an interview with USA Today, he indicated that My Friends may be the last novel he publishes, lending the project an uncommon sense of stakes and finality.
The novel was also named a May Indie Next List Top Pick by the American Booksellers Association, signalling strong early enthusiasm from independent booksellers ahead of publication.
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Back cover with praise quotes from major publications and review sources.

Critical Reception and Honours

The novel's reception has been emphatic. It spent twelve weeks on the New York Times Best Seller List and reached number one on August 17, 2025.
It won the 2025 Goodreads Choice Award for Best Fiction and was shortlisted for a British Book Award for Fiction Book of the Year. The audiobook won the Libby Audiobook of the Year and received an Audie Award nomination for Fiction.
BookPage awarded the novel a starred review, with the publication writing that Backman, "by focusing his tremendous empathy on the power of art and friendship, has created a novel that celebrates the beauty of being alive." critics* added, in a starred assessment, that "Backman delivers a wistful story about the power of friendships.... The author is at the top of his game.The novel also appeared on year-end lists from USA Today, Marie Claire, and Real Simple, among others.

Themes and Emotional Register

The thematic landscape of My Friends is consistent with Backman's body of work — loss, grief, the complications of love, and the possibility of second chances — but the novel trains its lens specifically on friendship as a generative force rather than merely a comfort. According to the Chicago Review of Books, the book takes an in-depth look at what it means to be so close to another person that the knowledge you carry of them becomes something almost artistic in itself.
Bellovich describes it as "a tender heartwarming novel exploring the challenges and joys of life itself, of loving and trusting others, of unexpected change and unexpected hope." Alongside that warmth, the novel is also described by its publisher as "unforgettably funny" — a blend of levity and emotional depth that characterises Backman's most celebrated work.

Who Will Find It Most Rewarding

Readers who responded to the community-and-grief dynamics of Anxious People or A Man Called Ove are the natural audience, but the dual-timeline architecture and the centrality of visual art as a narrative device give My Friends a distinct shape. Those drawn to stories where an object — here, a painting — serves as the hinge between generations and strangers will find the premise particularly well-suited to their tastes.
Readers who prefer more plot-driven fiction, or who find Backman's characteristic blend of sentiment and comedy uneven, may find the novel's deliberately ruminative pace a challenge; some readers, as noted in broader commentary on Backman's work, respond differently to his emotional register depending on how much they connect with his style of warmth. At 448 pages, the novel is substantial, and its dual-timeline construction asks readers to hold both strands in patient suspension before they converge.

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