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The Not So Big House: A Blueprint for the Way We Really Live

by Sarah Susanka

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First published1998
AudienceAdult
ISBN1600851509
Sarah Susanka

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The Not So Big House

A Blueprint for the Way We Really Live

by Sarah Susanka

LuvemBooks Verdict

Best for: Homeowners in the early stages of planning a build or remodel who want a clear, principle-driven framework for prioritizing quality, comfort, and intentionality over raw square footage.

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The Not So Big House: A Blueprint for the Way We Really Live is Sarah Susanka's landmark argument that American homeowners are better served by smaller, more intentionally designed spaces than by chasing square footage — a philosophy grounded in her professional experience as a residential architect. The expanded edition, published by The Taunton Press, adds a new introduction and chapter, making it both a foundational text and a practical guide for anyone planning to build or remodel. It is best suited to homeowners and design-curious readers willing to rethink their priorities; those seeking granular construction budgets or contractor-level logistics will need to look elsewhere.
Is it worth reading?
For homeowners in the early stages of a build or remodel, or for design-curious readers who want a framework for evaluating space, The Not So Big House is a clarifying and practical read that has demonstrated staying power over more than two decades. Susanka's argument that a well-designed smaller home can outperform a poorly designed larger one is a useful counterweight to the square-footage benchmarks that still dominate real estate listings and builder marketing. Readers seeking granular budgeting or contractor-level guidance will need supplementary resources, and those already fluent in quality-focused residential design may find the foundational argument covers familiar ground.
Similar books
Readers drawn to The Not So Big House's argument for intentional, quality-focused living spaces will find kindred thinking in several related titles. Myquillyn Smith's Cozy Minimalist Home shares the emphasis on purposeful design over accumulation, while Whitney Leigh Morris's Small Space Style makes a practical case for maximizing limited square footage with care and creativity. Maxwell Ryan's Apartment Therapy: The Eight-Step Home Cure approaches the same question of making a home feel right from a room-by-room, process-driven angle. For deeper architectural philosophy, Alain de Botton's The Architecture of Happiness and Christopher Alexander's A Pattern Language are natural companions, though those titles are not currently in the LuvemBooks catalogue.
Who should read this?
The Not So Big House is best suited to homeowners in the early stages of a build or remodel, to design-curious readers who want a framework for evaluating residential space, and to anyone who has stood in a large, expensive house and felt that something was missing. It is also a strong fit for those who want the vocabulary to communicate their priorities to architects and builders. The book is less directly useful for renters, those in heavily constrained housing situations, or professionals already well-versed in quality-focused residential design.
About Sarah Susanka
Sarah Susanka is an English-born, American-based architect, an author of nine best-selling books, and a public speaker.
What is the 'Not So Big' philosophy?
The Not So Big philosophy is Susanka's argument that quality should come before quantity in the places where people live their private lives. Rather than building larger, she contends that homeowners would be better served by redirecting the same budget away from unused square footage and toward craftsmanship, comfort, and intentionality — creating homes that genuinely reflect how people actually live. The philosophy has been credited with giving homeowners the language to articulate to architects and builders the kind of house they actually want, and it expanded well beyond the original book into an entire design movement and series of follow-up titles.
What are the book's limitations?
The Not So Big House is not a technical construction or project-management guide — readers seeking granular budgeting, contractor negotiations, or permitting guidance will need supplementary resources. Its practical utility is also most immediate for those with the means and context to build or significantly remodel, which limits its applicability for renters or those in heavily constrained housing situations. Readers already well-versed in quality-focused residential design, or professionals in residential architecture, may find that even the expanded edition's additions cover familiar territory.
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The Not So Big House makes the case that the sprawling, oversized homes dominating American residential construction are, for most people, the wrong answer. Residential architect Sarah Susanka argues that homeowners would be better served by redirecting their budgets away from unused square footage and toward craftsmanship, comfort, and intentionality. The book is structured as both an argument and a practical guide, offering specific design strategies for anyone planning to build, remodel, or rethink a living space. The expanded edition, published by The Taunton Press, adds a new introduction and a new chapter, providing updated thinking alongside the foundational quality-over-quantity philosophy.

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Editorial Review

Sarah Susanka's The Not So Big House is a bestselling architecture and home-design book that makes the case for building and remodeling around quality rather than square footage — a philosophy that reshaped how many Americans think about residential space. The expanded edition, published by The Taunton Press, adds a new introduction and new chapter to the original, giving both new and returning readers fresh material alongside Susanka's foundational argument.

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