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The Things We Cannot Say
The Things We Cannot Say Review: Bloggers Praise Its Two Timelines
Kelly Rimmer's The Things We Cannot Say pairs a teenager's love story in Nazi-occupied Poland with a modern mother's search for her grandmother's husband. Book bloggers found both timelines compelling and moving, with one dissent over the love story's intensity.
LuvemBooks Verdict
Best for
Readers who want a tearful WWII story in Nazi-occupied Poland paired with a present-day family drama about marriage and raising a child with autism, unspooled as a slow-reveal mystery.
Worth it if
Worth reading if you want a dual-timeline novel where both threads carry weight and you're happy to cry over a love story pitched at full volume.
Skip if
Skip it if you prefer restraint in historical romance, since one book blogger found Alina's declarations of love more like those in books and films than in real life, or if you want the modern family characters fully developed, as the armedwithabook.com blogger found one secondary character underdeveloped.
Where reviewers agree and split
Readers rate it 4.7 on Amazon. The reviews we read that discuss it in depth agree:
Only debbish.com and Literary Quicksand discuss its pacing: both praise the dual-timeline pacing.
Pacing
2 praise the dual-timeline pacing
Emotional impact
2 find it moving
Who says what
Pacing
“Rimmer paces the novel well so our knowledge of the past merges with Alice’s”
— debbish.com · Book blog“This novel builds a lot of suspense and reveals things slowly, which I actually ended up loving.”
— Literary Quicksand · Book blogEmotional impact
What readers & critics say
Reception comes from individual book bloggers and leans clearly positive: debbish.com, thelitbitch.com and tobyasmith.com were all won over, the first two despite expecting little from the genre. The main reservations are the intensity of the central love story and thin development of a secondary character.
Sources: debbish.com, literaryquicksand.com, thelitbitch.com, tobyasmith.com, fulloflit.comAsk LuvemBooks
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- Is it worth reading?
- Reviewers' verdicts lean positive, and two came in skeptical. Debbish does not usually read historical fiction yet read it in one riveted sitting, and the blogger at thelitbitch.com expected an also-ran in a crowded WWII genre but found it well written and touching. The caveat is emotional pitch: Toby A. Smith warns it is deeply emotional and at times difficult, while the love declarations read more like those in books and films than in life. All reviews come from individual bloggers, not newspapers or trade critics.
- Similar books
- Readers who want more family-secret stories set against WWII-era history could try We Were the Lucky Ones by Georgia Hunter, The Alice Network by Kate Quinn, or Salt to the Sea by Ruta Sepetys. Before We Were Yours by Lisa Wingate also traces a hidden family past across two timelines. Rimmer's own Truths I Never Told You is another of her family-mystery novels.
- Who should read this?
- It suits readers who want a WWII story told through a first love and who enjoy secrets revealed slowly rather than through a single twist. The modern thread about marriage and raising a child with autism gives it a second weighty subject beyond the war. Readers who want restraint in historical romance may be less satisfied.
- What age is it for?
- It is written for adults. The reviews flag it as set in Nazi-occupied Poland, but none of the bloggers addresses a recommended reading age. No source gives an age rating, so parents considering it for a teen should check the content themselves.
- What does it say about family?
- One blogger took from the ending how much family matters and how well partners can know us. The same reviewer noted that Alice's father appears little and that her mother's relationship with her own mother is not explored in depth, so the family theme leans more on Alice, Hanna and Alice's marriage.
- Where do reviewers agree and disagree?
- On the two-timeline structure they agree: the Literary Quicksand blogger found both women compelling in different ways, and Debbish praised the pacing. The one dissent concerns Alina's love story, which reads more like those in books than in life, with that reviewer noting she may simply not be romantic enough. None of the bloggers addresses the ending's payoff directly.
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