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We Are Not Like Them

We Are Not Like Them by Christine Pride and Jo Piazza Review: Friendship Fractured by a Police Shooting

by Christine Pride, Jo Piazza

Christine Pride and Jo Piazza's debut novel follows lifelong best friends Riley, a Black broadcast journalist, and Jen, a white woman whose husband is involved in the police shooting of a Black teen in Philadelphia. Alternating between their voices, it is earnest, accessible book-club fiction built for hard conversations.

Our age band: Adultpolice shooting of an unarmed Black teenager · racial injustice and racial trauma

LuvemBooks Verdict

Best for

Book clubs and readers of issue-driven contemporary fiction who want a fast, dual-narrator story about how a police shooting fractures a lifelong cross-racial friendship — and a novel designed to be argued about afterward.

Worth it if

Worth it if you want propulsive, emotionally direct book-club fiction that runs a headline tragedy through two women's alternating perspectives — and you can accept that the shooting is the catalyst, not the subject.

Skip if

Skip it if you want a legal procedural, a story centered on the victim's family, or a subtler, less message-forward treatment — much of the page time goes to the white friend's moral reckoning.

Critics read the novel against real events: The Washington Post said its prologue of an unarmed Black teen shot by a white officer was "all too familiar," invoking Tamir Rice, Michael Brown, and Philando Castile, while The New York Times noted the book is deliberately "not about Justin or his family" but about the overdue reckoning between two friends. Kirkus Reviews predicted it was "bound for book-club glory," and Broad Street Review called it gripping while questioning some believability gaps, such as why the friends had never discussed race before.

“The heartbreak of the prologue was all too familiar: an unarmed Black teen, shot dead by a White police officer.”

— The Washington Post

“With its timely premise, clear-cut messages, and appealing female characters, this novel is bound for book-club glory.”

— Kirkus Reviews

“The novel isn't about Justin or his family; his tragedy becomes the catalyst for an overdue reckoning between two lifelong friends.”

— The New York Times
Sources: The Washington Post, Kirkus Reviews, Broad Street Review, The New York Times
4.4from 7,422 Amazon ratings— reader ratings, not a LuvemBooks score

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We Are Not Like Them is Christine Pride and Jo Piazza's debut collaboration, a dual-narrated novel about a Philadelphia police shooting and the cross-racial friendship it fractures — Riley, a Black broadcast journalist, and Jen, whose white husband is involved in the killing of 14-year-old Justin Dwyer. It is propulsive, conversation-ready book-club fiction, ideal for readers who want headline subject matter processed through an intimate two-woman story. The key caveat: the victim and the legal case recede after the prologue, and much of the page time goes to the white friend's moral reckoning — a framing some readers will find fruitful and others frustrating.
Is it worth reading?
For the right reader, yes. Pride and Piazza's alternating-narration design gives both sides of the racial divide a full interior voice, the pacing is compulsive — early readers described finishing it in a single sitting — and the discussion-ready stakes made it a natural book-club success. The trade-offs are real, though: Justin and his family recede after the prologue, a substantial share of the page time belongs to Jen's moral education, and the register is earnest and message-forward, offering little ambiguity for readers who prefer subtler fiction.
Similar books
Readers who respond to We Are Not Like Them's mix of headline subject matter and intimate relationships should try Angie Thomas's The Hate U Give, the defining novel of a Black teen witnessing a police shooting, and Tayari Jones's An American Marriage, which tests a relationship against systemic injustice. Jodi Picoult's Small Great Things tackles race and moral reckoning in similarly discussion-driven book-club territory, while Marjan Kamali's The Lion Women of Tehran offers another story of a female friendship strained by the politics around it. For more from Jo Piazza herself, The Sicilian Inheritance shows her range beyond issue-driven fiction.
Who should read this?
This is issue-driven contemporary fiction engineered for conversation — the natural pick for book clubs ready to talk about race and friendship, and for readers who like novels that grab a current of real public life and run it through personal relationships. It will suit fans of socially engaged book-club fiction who want momentum and dual perspectives. It will frustrate readers seeking a legal procedural, a story centered on the shooting victim's family, or a subtler, less declarative treatment of its themes.
Is it based on real events?
Not literally — Justin Dwyer and the central shooting are fictional — but the novel deliberately builds on events readers already carry with them. The Washington Post's review noted that the prologue immediately brought to mind Tamir Rice, Michael Brown, and Philando Castile, describing the opening as all too familiar: an unarmed Black teen shot dead by a white police officer. That strategy of laying fiction directly on top of real public trauma is the book's defining move.
What are the main criticisms?
Three criticisms surface consistently. First, Justin's tragedy functions as a catalyst — after the brief, brutal prologue, he and his family recede from the foreground, so readers expecting the victim or the legal case to carry the narrative will be surprised. Second, a substantial share of the page time belongs to Jen's reckoning, meaning a story set in motion by a Black boy's death spends much of its energy on a white woman's moral education. Third, the register is earnest and message-forward throughout, which readers who prefer oblique or ambiguity-friendly fiction may find more persuasive in a discussion group than on the page.
How does it compare to The Sicilian Inheritance?
The two books show very different sides of Piazza's work. We Are Not Like Them, co-written with veteran editor Christine Pride, is issue-driven contemporary fiction — a dual-narrated story about race and friendship built directly on the police-shooting headlines. The Sicilian Inheritance is Piazza solo, leaning into family saga and ancestral mystery on Sicily rather than ripped-from-the-news social drama. Readers who valued this novel's momentum and emotional directness will recognize Piazza's storytelling instincts in both, but the register and subject matter are distinct.
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Summarize this book

We Are Not Like Them opens with a prologue in which Justin Dwyer, a 14-year-old Black boy in Philadelphia, is struck by police bullets — then pivots to its true subject: lifelong best friends Riley, a Black broadcast journalist, and Jen, a white woman whose husband is one of the officers involved. Alternating between Riley's and Jen's points of view, the novel follows what the killing does to an intimate relationship rather than to a courtroom, staging a reckoning that exposes distance in the friendship that was always there. Published by Atria Books in 2021, it is earnest, accessible book-club fiction built for hard conversations about race, loyalty, marriage, and motherhood.

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A propulsive, conversation-ready debut novel about a police shooting in Philadelphia and the cross-racial friendship it fractures — earnest, accessible book-club fiction that keeps its focus on two women rather than the courtroom.

The Premise: One Shooting, Two Best Friends, One Fault Line

We Are Not Like Them opens with a prologue in which Justin Dwyer, a 14-year-old Black boy in Philadelphia, is struck by police bullets. From there the novel pivots to its true subject: Riley and Jen, lifelong best friends whose bond is tested by Justin's death.
Riley is a Black broadcast journalist who has returned to her Philadelphia hometown after a painful separation; Jen is white, and her husband is a Philadelphia police officer involved in the shooting. The structure alternates between Riley's and Jen's points of view, so the reader is moved back and forth across the racial and emotional divide the killing opens between them.
First published by Atria Books in 2021 and issued in paperback in August 2022, the novel is the debut collaboration of Christine Pride — a writer and longtime publishing veteran who has held editorial posts at Doubleday, Broadway, Crown, Hyperion, and Simon & Schuster — and Jo Piazza, a bestselling author and award-winning journalist.

Why It Struck a Nerve

The novel arrived at a moment of national reckoning, and reviewers treated it accordingly. The Washington Post's review invoked the real names the prologue brought to mind — Tamir Rice, Michael Brown, Philando Castile — and described the opening bluntly: "The heartbreak of the prologue was all too familiar: an unarmed Black teen, shot dead by a White police officer."
That framing captures the book's deliberate strategy: it builds fiction directly on top of events readers already carry with them, then asks what those events do to an intimate relationship rather than to a courtroom or a movement. The publisher pitches it as "a powerful story about friendship, race, love, forgiveness, and justice," and that combination — headline subject matter processed through a domestic, two-woman story — is what positioned it squarely in the book-club market, where it found a wide readership.

What It Does Well

The alternating-narration design is the book's engine. By splitting the story between a Black narrator and a white narrator, Pride and Piazza give each woman an interiority the other cannot access, and the reader watches the same events refract through two sets of assumptions about race, loyalty, marriage, and motherhood.
The authors bring complementary résumés to that task: Pride's decades acquiring and editing bestselling fiction inform the book's pacing and structure, while Piazza's journalism background suits Riley's broadcast-news career. Advance praise gathered by the publisher emphasizes exactly this compulsive quality, with early readers describing finishing it in a single sitting.
The novel also does something structurally honest with its premise: rather than pretending friendship can simply absorb a crisis like this, it stages the reckoning as overdue — the shooting exposes distance that was always there, which gives the central relationship real stakes beyond the news cycle.
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Where Readers May Push Back

The same focus that powers the book is also its most debatable choice. Justin's tragedy functions as a catalyst, and after the brief, brutal prologue the novel turns its attention to Riley and Jen — Justin and his family recede from the foreground.
Readers who come expecting the victim's family, the investigation, or the legal aftermath to carry the narrative should know that this is a friendship story first; the case is the weather around it, not the plot. Relatedly, a substantial share of the page time belongs to Jen's reckoning, which means a story set in motion by a Black boy's death spends much of its energy on a white woman's moral education — a framing some readers will find fruitful and others will find frustrating.
The register is earnest and message-forward throughout; readers who prefer their fiction oblique, ironic, or ambiguity-friendly may find the novel's emotional directness more persuasive in a discussion group than on the page alone. None of this is a flaw so much as a clear set of priorities, but they are priorities worth knowing before buying.

Who This Book Is For

This is issue-driven contemporary fiction engineered for conversation — the natural pick for book clubs ready to talk about race and friendship, and for readers who like novels that grab a current of real public life and run it through personal relationships. It will suit readers of socially engaged book-club fiction who want momentum, dual perspectives, and characters forced into hard conversations they have spent years avoiding.
It will frustrate readers seeking a legal procedural, a story centered on the shooting victim's family, or a subtler, less declarative treatment of its themes. As a debut collaboration, it announces Pride and Piazza as a pairing built for exactly this kind of high-concept, high-empathy storytelling.

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Adult

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police shooting of an unarmed Black teenager
racial injustice and racial trauma
sustained grief throughout

Best for: Adults — the narrative is built around a police killing, racial trauma, and sustained grief, suited to mature readers

Skip if you want a legal procedural or a story centered on the shooting victim and his family — the case is the backdrop, not the plot

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