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This is Me by Shari Low Review: Widowhood, Secrets and Second Chances
Shari Low's This is Me (Aria, 2019) follows Denise, widowed after forty years with Ray — her first and only love — as she learns the marriage she idolised was fatally flawed. Fans of Jojo Moyes and Marian Keyes get a gripping, emotional page-turner, though some readers find it repetitive.
LuvemBooks Verdict
Best for
Readers of commercial women's fiction — especially existing Shari Low fans — who want an emotionally generous page-turner about a widow discovering her 'perfect' forty-year marriage was flawed.
Worth it if
Worth it if you value emotional payoff over prose style — readers consistently praise an ending and tear-jerking epilogue that kept them guessing, and the grief-and-second-chances arc stands alone even for newcomers.
Skip if
Skip it if you want literary polish or structural surprise — at least one reader found the plotting repetitive and the bantering friend group forced, and the Moyes/Keyes cover comparisons oversell its ambition.
What readers & critics say
Coverage is concentrated in book blogs and reader-review platforms rather than broadsheet criticism. WhatCathyReadNext called it "an engaging, emotional story about motherhood, relationships and the choices we often face," while Stardust Book Reviews praised it as "a beautiful thought-provoking story" that delivers "a rollercoaster ride of emotions"; a NetGalley reviewer offered a more mixed take, calling it a must-read on dysfunctional family relationships while admitting protagonist Denise was a character "I tried to like, but I couldn't."
Sources: WhatCathyReadNext, Stardust Book Reviews, NetGalley, Fantastic FictionAge & Reading Level
Recommended age
Adult
Reading level
Adult
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Content to know about
Skip if you want literary prose or tightly structured plotting — this is warm, momentum-driven commercial fiction that at least one reader found repetitive, with a friend group that can feel forced to anyone not already invested in Low's world.
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Updated Sep 23, 2026In This Review
- What Works & What Doesn't
- A Forty-Year Marriage, Reopened
- Where It Sits in Shari Low's Catalogue
- What Readers Say It Does Well
- Where It Falters for Some
- Who It Is For
What Works & What Doesn't
What Works
- Strong emotional hook: a widow discovers her 'perfect' forty-year marriage was flawed
- From a No.1 bestselling author with over 20 novels and millions of copies sold
- Readers consistently praise the ending and a tear-jerking epilogue
- Balancing humour, suspense and sadness is a repeatedly noted strength
- Familiar characters reward readers of Low's connected novels
What Doesn't
- At least one reader found the plotting repetitive and the friend group forced and annoying
- The returning-character appeal favours existing fans; newcomers get less from the shared-world elements
- Commercial page-turner craft — readers seeking the literary polish of the Moyes/Keyes comparisons should calibrate
- Reception evidence is reader reviews rather than major critical coverage

A Forty-Year Marriage, Reopened
Where It Sits in Shari Low's Catalogue
What Readers Say It Does Well
Where It Falters for Some
Who It Is For
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