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First published2018
Setting1940s–1970s Brooklyn, Catskills, New York
AudienceAdult

About the Author

Linda I. Meyers

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LuvemBooks Verdict

Best for

Readers drawn to essay-based memoirs rooted in specific cultural and historical texture — particularly those with an interest in postwar American Jewish life, Brownsville Brooklyn, and psychologically honest family portraiture.

Worth it if

The associative, standalone-essay structure appeals to you and you value prose that blends irony, Yiddish-inflected humor, and genuine grief while covering an unusually wide arc of one life — from mob-adjacent origins through motherhood, loss, and a career in psychoanalysis.

Skip if

You prefer a strictly chronological memoir with a tight, linear through-line — Kirkus Reviews explicitly flags that the back-and-forth temporal movement produces some repetition, which may frustrate readers with that expectation.

What readers & critics say

Kirkus Reviews awarded The Tell their "Get It" verdict, calling it "a touching, angry, humorous, and engaging account of a turbulent life" and praising its edgy, masterful prose. Foreword Reviews found the historical atmosphere immersive and noted that even the complications of faulty or skewed memory add depth to the narrative rather than detract from it.

A touching, angry, humorous, and engaging account of a turbulent life.

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4.3from 18 Amazon ratings— reader ratings, not a LuvemBooks score

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The Tell: A Memoir is Linda I. Meyers' debut excavation of a Brooklyn Jewish family's secrets and multigenerational dysfunction, moving from a mob-adjacent childhood in 1940s Brownsville through early marriage, motherhood, divorce, and a career in psychoanalysis. Kirkus Reviews awarded it a "Get It" verdict, praising its edgy, masterful prose that gradually peels away layers of hurt, confusion, and guilt. Readers who thrive on associative, essay-based memoir with rich historical atmosphere will find it deeply rewarding — though those who prefer strict chronological narrative should note the back-and-forth structure produces some repetition.
Is it worth reading?
For readers drawn to psychologically honest family memoir with strong historical atmosphere, The Tell delivers considerable depth. Kirkus Reviews awarded it a "Get It" verdict — praise not given to every debut — describing it as "touching, angry, humorous, and engaging," and singling out prose that is "edgy" and "masterful," sprinkled with the Yiddish expressions of Meyers' youth. Foreword Reviews notes that even the complications of faulty or skewed memory add depth rather than detract, a sophisticated narrative choice. The one genuine caveat: the back-and-forth temporal movement produces some repetition, which Kirkus explicitly flags, making it a less natural fit for readers who prize tight, linear storytelling.
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Readers drawn to The Tell's combination of family reckoning, female self-realization, and emotionally honest prose will find strong companions in the books curated below. Tara Westover's Educated shares the experience of escaping a damaging family environment to forge an independent identity, with similarly unflinching honesty about parental harm. Jennifer Grey's Out of the Corner: A Memoir offers another woman's deeply personal account of navigating family dynamics and forging a sense of self across decades. Alexandra Stein's Inside Out: A Memoir of Entering and Strangers Again: A Memoir of Marriage, Betrayal, and Becoming Whole by Sam Joe both explore identity, relationships, and the long work of becoming whole — themes central to Meyers' arc as well.
Who should read this?
The Tell is best suited to adult readers who gravitate toward essay-based, associative memoir rather than strictly chronological narrative. It will especially reward those with an interest in postwar American Jewish history, Brooklyn's mid-century immigrant culture, and the Catskills bungalow colony world. Mental health professionals and anyone drawn to psychological self-examination will find Meyers' perspective — shaped by her career as a psychologist and psychoanalyst — unusually reflective and self-aware. Readers who appreciate prose blending irony and humor with genuine grief, as Barnes & Noble's description characterizes it, will feel at home here.
About Linda I. Meyers
Linda I. Meyers is a clinical psychologist and psychoanalyst based in New York City and Princeton, NJ, who trained at the Graduate School of Applied and Professional Psychology at Rutgers University. She has published in professional journals and academic books. The Tell is her first published memoir, with two chapters appearing in literary journals in 2016, including "The Flowers," which received a top-five recognition.
What are the main themes?
The Tell explores family secrets, multigenerational dysfunction, and the long process of female emancipation from a restrictive, chauvinistic postwar culture. Central to the memoir is the tension between Meyers' two parents: her father Gerry, a charismatic womanizer with mob-adjacent ties, and her mother Tessie, emotionally fragile and ultimately suicidal. Broader themes include the immigrant experience and cultural identity of Brooklyn's Eastern European Jewish community, the social constraints on women in the 1940s and 1950s, and the hard-won journey toward self-realization — culminating in Meyers' career as a psychologist and psychoanalyst. Memory itself is also a theme: Foreword Reviews notes that the complications of faulty or skewed memory add depth rather than detract.
What is the writing style like?
Kirkus Reviews describes the prose as "edgy" and "masterful," sprinkled with Yiddish expressions and blending irony and humor with genuine grief. Foreword Reviews notes that all senses are activated in Meyers' depictions of events, making the historical atmosphere immersive when the setting calls for it — particularly in the 1940s Brooklyn sections and the Catskills. The essay-based structure means each piece operates as its own complete unit while contributing to the larger arc, rewarding readers who appreciate associative, layered prose over conventional memoir linearity.
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Summarize this book

The Tell: A Memoir is structured as a series of standalone essays tracing Linda I. Meyers' journey out of the "tell" her family inhabited — a word she uses to encompass secrets, the unspoken, and the accumulated layers of a life. The book covers an enormous span: her origins as a child conceived to keep her father Gerry out of World War II; her childhood in 1940s Brooklyn caught between her womanizing, mob-adjacent father and her emotionally fragile, suicidal mother Tessie; a pivotal 1957 summer at a Catskills bungalow colony where she fell in love with a young man named Ralph Lifshitz — later known as Ralph Lauren; her desperate 1961 marriage to Howard as an escape from home; divorce twelve years and three sons later; and her eventual path to a career as a psychologist and psychoanalyst. One of the memoir's quiet surprises is the later identity of that Catskills love.

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Age & Reading Level

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Adult

Reading level

Adult

Content to know about

parental suicide (on-page and described in detail)
childhood emotional neglect and parental instability
mob-adjacent violence and gang culture

Best for: Adults — the memoir centers on parental suicide, childhood trauma, and the social constraints on women in postwar America, making it most suitable for mature adult readers.

Skip if you want a strictly chronological memoir with a tight linear through-line, as the associative essay structure produces some repetition.

Editorial Review

Published by She Writes Press on June 5, 2018, Linda I. Meyers' debut memoir excavates the secrets and multigenerational dysfunctions of a Brooklyn Jewish family, tracing the author's path from a turbulent childhood—caught between a mob-adjacent womanizer father and a suicidal mother—through early marriage, motherhood, divorce, and ultimately toward a career as a psychologist and psychoanalyst. Kirkus Reviews calls it "a touching, angry, humorous, and engaging account of a turbulent life," and the book's structure as a series of standalone essays rewards readers drawn to personal narrative with strong historical atmosphere and edgy, masterful prose.

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