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Tell Me Everything

Tell Me Everything by Elizabeth Strout Review: Small-Town Maine Reunion Novel

Elizabeth Strout's Tell Me Everything reunites Lucy Barton, Olive Kitteridge and lawyer Bob Burgess in Crosby, Maine, around a murder case and a friendship. Reviewers praise its attention to ordinary lives but note its loose plot and its debt to Strout's earlier books.

Our age band: Adultmurder case · suicide

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Best for

Readers who like conversation-driven literary fiction about ordinary small-town lives and who already know Strout's Crosby and Shirley Falls characters.

Worth it if

Worth reading if you are content to let a loosely plotted novel of walks, shared stories and quiet attachments accumulate meaning, without a neat ending driving it.

Skip if

Skip it if you want a tightly plotted mystery, a standalone entry into Strout's work, or an ending that resolves its threads, since reviews describe a rambling structure, a background murder case and open-ended storylines.

Critics lean warmly positive but with reservations. Kirkus Reviews calls it a "sweet, rambling tale" that fans will love while more critical readers may feel Strout should move on; BookBrowse notes it has no firm narrative arc, and the California Review of Books (via independent.com) says it is probably not the best place to start for newcomers.

Sources: Kirkus Reviews, BookBrowse, California Review of Books (Santa Barbara Independent)
4.3from 30,334 Amazon ratings— reader ratings, not a LuvemBooks score

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Tell Me Everything gathers Lucy Barton, Olive Kitteridge and Bob Burgess in Crosby, Maine where a murder case hums in the background while friends trade stories about ordinary lives. It rewards readers who already know Strout's world and are content with a loose plot; those wanting a tight mystery or a clean entry point are likelier to be frustrated.
Is it worth reading?
It earns real enthusiasm from some quarters: Mattis Gravingen of the Berkeley Fiction Review found the characters' emotional lives engrossing, and Julia's Books called the dialogue natural and the writing deceptively simple. The caveat is structural. BookBrowse's Kim Kovacs says the plotlines almost seem like an afterthought, and Julia's Books reported that her book club was divided. The book was an Oprah's Book Club pick and a Women's Prize for Fiction shortlist title.
Similar books
The closest company is Strout's own Olive Kitteridge and Olive, Again, which carry the Maine small-town setting and the character of Olive herself. Kazuo Ishiguro's The Remains of the Day is a natural pairing. Barbara Kingsolver's Demon Copperhead is a more plot-driven, sprawling look at a community and its overlooked people.
Who should read this?
It suits readers who enjoy Strout's characters and who have encountered her work before, since the more we linger in her world, the more we are expected to know its inhabitants. It is a poor fit for anyone who wants a mystery with a clear solution or a work that stands alone. BookBrowse and Oprah Daily's quoted reaction suggest newcomers can manage it, but sources disagree.
What age is it for?
This is a novel written for adults. No source we found gives an age rating, but its subject matter includes a suicide and the characters' regrets, and its quiet, reflective pace suits mature readers more than teens.
About Elizabeth Strout
Elizabeth Strout is an American novelist and author. LuvemBooks has also reviewed her Olive Kitteridge, Olive, Again and The Things We Never Say.
What are the main themes?
The publisher frames the book around Lucy's question of what anyone's life means, with Olive's phrase "unrecorded lives" naming the stories the characters trade. The Washington Post describes it as a novel of moods and how they govern personal lives and public spaces. Gravingen of the Berkeley Fiction Review says those stories made him want to cry.
Is there a romance?
Only a restrained one. Bob and Lucy form a bond through walks and talk, and the publisher says the characters fall in love yet choose to be apart. Oprah Daily presented the book as holding romance and secrets, but nothing here is a courtship plot.
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Summarize this book

In autumn in Crosby, Maine, lawyer Bob Burgess defends a lonely, isolated man accused of killing his mother, while forming a deep friendship with the writer Lucy Barton, who lives nearby with her ex-husband William. Bob and Lucy walk and talk about their lives, fears and regrets, and Lucy also spends afternoons with Olive Kitteridge at her retirement community, swapping stories of people they have known. The Guardian notes the genuine murder case is interleaved with tales of ordinarily damaged families.

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Worth reading, with a clear dividing line: Elizabeth Strout's Crosby, Maine novel was an Oprah's Book Club pick and a Women's Prize for Fiction shortlist title, and People called it a "stunner." The caveat is how little drives it, and the California Review of Books' David Starkey says he wouldn't have enjoyed it as much without knowing the earlier books.

What happens in Tell Me Everything?

It is autumn in Crosby, Maine, and the town lawyer Bob Burgess is defending a lonely, isolated man accused of killing his mother, according to the publisher's description. Bob has also fallen into a deep friendship with the acclaimed writer Lucy Barton, who lives down the road with her ex-husband, William.
The two take walks and talk about their lives, fears and regrets.
Lucy is also introduced to Olive Kitteridge, now living in a retirement community on the edge of town. The two spend afternoons trading stories about people they have known, "unrecorded lives," as Olive calls them, and the publisher frames the book around Lucy's question, "What does anyone's life mean?"
The publisher also says the characters "fall in love and yet choose to be apart," so the romance is a restrained, unresolved attachment between Bob and Lucy, not a courtship plot.
Strout's longtime readers will recognise the cast. The Guardian traces how her fictional landscape has grown book by book, and notes that Lucy and William, settled in Crosby, are on the point of remarrying.

How did critics and readers judge the tone and style of Tell Me Everything?

The Washington Post, quoted in the publisher's materials, called it "a novel of moods, how they govern our personal lives and public spaces, reflected in Strout's shimmering technique." Oprah Daily presented it as a book with "romance and mystery and secrets."
The Denver Post carried a reader's four-star verdict calling it "a breathtakingly good read" about listening and love.
Some see the plain surface as the achievement. Julia's Books, a book blog, said Strout's writing "appears simple, but is deceptively so," and praised the dialogue as natural.
The blogger said she loved the book and could not put it down.
Mattis Gravingen of the Berkeley Fiction Review found the characters' emotional lives engrossing even though little happens, and said the stories of "unrecorded lives" made him want to cry.

Does the murder plot drive Tell Me Everything?

Not by most accounts. BookBrowse's reviewer, Kim Kovacs, wrote that the book has no firm narrative arc in typical Strout fashion, and that the plotlines almost seem like an afterthought, a loose scaffolding on which to build something simpler yet grander.
Gravingen likewise noted that there is no clear conflict and that the murder mystery stays in the background.
His summary sounds, he wrote, like a rambling, shambling mess, but he said it doesn't read that way, because Strout knows her characters and setting so well that everything adds up in the end.
The Guardian noted that a genuine murder mystery is interleaved with the tales of ordinarily damaged families, and said it all becomes subtly strange. None of the reviews we hold judges the ending.

Do you need to read Strout's earlier books first?

Sources disagree. Oprah Daily quoted Oprah saying Tell Me Everything has all the things: romance and mystery and secrets, and some reviewers say you will feel like a Crosby, Maine, local by the end of the first chapter.
BookBrowse likewise said it can be read as a standalone, though newcomers will probably want the earlier novels afterwards.
Starkey, by contrast, said it is probably not the best place to start, and that the more we hang around Strout's world, the more we are expected to know its inhabitants. Julia's Books calls it Strout's fifth Amgash book.
His one complaint about the cast: Olive is given short shrift, mostly trading stories with Lucy.

Is Tell Me Everything worth reading?

Weighing these reviews, the tension is between a book valued for attention and kindness and one criticised for how little happens. The enthusiasts, including the Denver Post reader, some reviewers and Gravingen, find that attention moving.
Others point to the loose plot and the debt to earlier books.
The dissent is on record too. The Denver Post's reviewer wrote that "Not all agree," and a separate Denver reader gave a different book, Audition, two of four stars for leaving "more questions than answers" in a similar mood of ambiguity.
Julia's Books reported that its book club was divided, and Bookclubs.com's summary says readers who disliked Strout's earlier books won't like this one.
So the book points toward readers who enjoy conversation-driven fiction about ordinary lives, and away from anyone who wants a plotted mystery or a standalone entry point. It sits naturally beside Strout's own Olive Kitteridge, Lucy by the Sea and Oh William!, which the sources name as the books it draws on.
Whether it succeeds on its own terms is a judgement no review we hold makes outright.

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murder case
suicide
emotional isolation
regret and loneliness

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