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My Friends: A Novel by Fredrik Backman Review: A Tender, Dual-Timeline Celebration of Friendship
My Friends is Fredrik Backman's dual-timeline novel about four teenage friends whose fierce bond — and the art it inspires — reaches across twenty-five years to change a stranger's life. Published by Atria Books in May 2025, it became a #1 New York Times bestseller, won the 2025 Goodreads Choice Award for Best Fiction, and earned starred critical praise for its empathy and emotional range.
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Best for
Readers who loved the community warmth and grief-soaked humour of Backman's A Man Called Ove or Anxious People and are drawn to stories where a single work of art — here, a painting of three figures on a pier — serves as the hinge between generations and strangers.
Worth it if
Worth reading if you have patience for a ruminative dual-timeline structure and respond to Backman's signature blend of wistful tenderness, comedy, and emotional gut-punches — especially if the idea of friendship as a generative, almost artistic force resonates with you.
Skip if
Skip it if you need plot momentum to stay engaged, have found Backman's emotional register too sentimental in the past, or are put off by a 448-page novel that asks you to hold two timelines in patient suspension before they converge.
What readers & critics say
Kirkus Reviews (starred) calls the novel "humorous, poignant, and always life-affirming," while BookPage (starred, as quoted via byrdsbooks.com) writes that Backman "has created a novel that celebrates the beauty of being alive," and critical coverage (starred, via byrdsbooks.com) declares "the author is at the top of his game." The Chicago Review of Books (chireviewofbooks.com) describes it as a tender novel that hits its stride when Louisa's present-day story intertwines with the four friends' past, praising its exploration of trust, friendship, and unexpected hope.
“Backman has created indelible characters and laugh-out-loud moments — a witty writer and a keen observer.”
— Kirkus ReviewsAge & Reading Level
Recommended age
Adult
Reading level
Adult
Content to know about
Skip if you prefer plot-driven fiction over ruminative, emotionally layered storytelling
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Updated Sep 13, 2026In This Review
- What Works & What Doesn't
- What the Novel Is and What It Does
- Background and Publication Context
- Critical Reception and Honours
- Themes and Emotional Register
- Who Will Find It Most Rewarding
What Works & What Doesn't
What Works
- Reached #1 on the New York Times Best Seller List and won the 2025 Goodreads Choice Award for Best Fiction, reflecting broad reader and critical enthusiasm
- Starred reviews from both BookPage and Publishers Weekly praise Backman's empathy and storytelling craft at their peak
- The dual-timeline structure — alternating between the teenagers' past and Louisa's present — gives the novel a distinctive architectural shape organised around a single, resonant work of art
- Shortlisted for a British Book Award for Fiction Book of the Year and named a Fallon Book Club Pick, demonstrating wide recognition across markets
- Backman's signature blend of humour and emotional depth is present throughout, described by the publisher as both 'unforgettably funny' and 'deeply moving'
What Doesn't
- At 448 pages with a ruminative dual-timeline structure, the novel demands patient readers; those who prefer plot momentum over reflection may find the pacing a challenge
- Backman's distinctive emotional register — warm, wistful, and comedic in close succession — is an acquired taste, and readers new to his work may need to calibrate to his style before the novel fully lands

What the Novel Is and What It Does
Background and Publication Context

Critical Reception and Honours
Themes and Emotional Register
Who Will Find It Most Rewarding
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