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My Friends: A Novel by Fredrik Backman Review: A Tender, Dual-Timeline Celebration of Friendship

My Friends is Fredrik Backman's dual-timeline novel about four teenage friends whose fierce bond — and the art it inspires — reaches across twenty-five years to change a stranger's life. Published by Atria Books in May 2025, it became a #1 New York Times bestseller, won the 2025 Goodreads Choice Award for Best Fiction, and earned starred critical praise for its empathy and emotional range.

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LuvemBooks Verdict

Best for

Readers who loved the community warmth and grief-soaked humour of Backman's A Man Called Ove or Anxious People and are drawn to stories where a single work of art — here, a painting of three figures on a pier — serves as the hinge between generations and strangers.

Worth it if

Worth reading if you have patience for a ruminative dual-timeline structure and respond to Backman's signature blend of wistful tenderness, comedy, and emotional gut-punches — especially if the idea of friendship as a generative, almost artistic force resonates with you.

Skip if

Skip it if you need plot momentum to stay engaged, have found Backman's emotional register too sentimental in the past, or are put off by a 448-page novel that asks you to hold two timelines in patient suspension before they converge.

Kirkus Reviews (starred) calls the novel "humorous, poignant, and always life-affirming," while BookPage (starred, as quoted via byrdsbooks.com) writes that Backman "has created a novel that celebrates the beauty of being alive," and critical coverage (starred, via byrdsbooks.com) declares "the author is at the top of his game." The Chicago Review of Books (chireviewofbooks.com) describes it as a tender novel that hits its stride when Louisa's present-day story intertwines with the four friends' past, praising its exploration of trust, friendship, and unexpected hope.

Backman has created indelible characters and laugh-out-loud moments — a witty writer and a keen observer.

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Sources: Kirkus Reviews, Chicago Review of Books, Byrds Books, BookBrowse, Book Reporter, Englewood Review, I've Read This, Barlin's Books, Screenwise, Book Thoughts from Bed
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Age & Reading Level

Recommended age

Adult

Reading level

Adult

Content to know about

grief and loss
themes of friendship, mortality, and creative legacy

Skip if you prefer plot-driven fiction over ruminative, emotionally layered storytelling

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In This Review
  • What Works & What Doesn't
  • What the Novel Is and What It Does
  • Background and Publication Context
  • Critical Reception and Honours
  • Themes and Emotional Register
  • Who Will Find It Most Rewarding

What Works & What Doesn't

What Works
  • Reached #1 on the New York Times Best Seller List and won the 2025 Goodreads Choice Award for Best Fiction, reflecting broad reader and critical enthusiasm
  • Starred reviews from both BookPage and Publishers Weekly praise Backman's empathy and storytelling craft at their peak
  • The dual-timeline structure — alternating between the teenagers' past and Louisa's present — gives the novel a distinctive architectural shape organised around a single, resonant work of art
  • Shortlisted for a British Book Award for Fiction Book of the Year and named a Fallon Book Club Pick, demonstrating wide recognition across markets
  • Backman's signature blend of humour and emotional depth is present throughout, described by the publisher as both 'unforgettably funny' and 'deeply moving'
What Doesn't
  • At 448 pages with a ruminative dual-timeline structure, the novel demands patient readers; those who prefer plot momentum over reflection may find the pacing a challenge
  • Backman's distinctive emotional register — warm, wistful, and comedic in close succession — is an acquired taste, and readers new to his work may need to calibrate to his style before the novel fully lands
This review covers the novel's content, structure, and reception as documented by published sources — not hands-on use or reading.
My Friends: A Novel by Fredrik Backman front cover
My Friends: A Novel by Fredrik Backman front cover

What the Novel Is and What It Does

My Friends centres on two intertwined storylines separated by roughly twenty-five years. In the past, four teenage friends — Joar, Ted, Ali, and a fourth who becomes a painter — form a bond of extraordinary closeness. That friendship produces a work of art: a painting depicting three tiny figures sitting at the end of a long pier, so intimate and precise that it becomes one of the most famous images of its kind. In the present, a young woman named Louisa encounters that painting and finds her life altered by it. Chapters alternate between the two timelines, with the past belonging to the four teenagers and the present belonging to Louisa — a structure designed, according to Chicago Review of Books contributor Karen Bellovich, to explore what it means to know another person so completely that the bond itself becomes a creative act capable of outlasting its makers.
a tender heartwarming novel exploring the challenges and joys of life itself, of loving and trusting others, of unexpected change and unexpected hope.

Background and Publication Context

Backman, the Swedish author best known for A Man Called Ove and Anxious People, wrote My Friends originally in Swedish, but in a notable reversal the English-language edition — published by Atria Books on May 6, 2025 — preceded the Swedish edition from Norstedts, which followed in August 2025. Backman has spoken candidly about the book's personal weight: in an interview with USA Today, he indicated that My Friends may be the last novel he publishes, lending the project an uncommon sense of stakes and finality. The novel was also named a May Indie Next List Top Pick by the American Booksellers Association, signalling strong early enthusiasm from independent booksellers ahead of publication.
Back cover with praise quotes from major publications and review sources.
Back cover with praise quotes from major publications and review sources.

Critical Reception and Honours

The novel's reception has been emphatic. It spent twelve weeks on the New York Times Best Seller List and reached number one on August 17, 2025. It won the 2025 Goodreads Choice Award for Best Fiction and was shortlisted for a British Book Award for Fiction Book of the Year. The audiobook won the Libby Audiobook of the Year and received an Audie Award nomination for Fiction. BookPage awarded the novel a starred review, with the publication writing that Backman, "by focusing his tremendous empathy on the power of art and friendship, has created a novel that celebrates the beauty of being alive." Critical coverage* added, in a starred assessment, that "Backman delivers a wistful story about the power of friendships.... The author is at the top of his game." The novel also appeared on year-end lists from USA Today, critical coverage, Marie Claire, and Real Simple, among others.

Themes and Emotional Register

The thematic landscape of My Friends is consistent with Backman's body of work — loss, grief, the complications of love, and the possibility of second chances — but the novel trains its lens specifically on friendship as a generative force rather than merely a comfort. According to the Chicago Review of Books, the book takes an in-depth look at what it means to be so close to another person that the knowledge you carry of them becomes something almost artistic in itself. Bellovich describes it as "a tender heartwarming novel exploring the challenges and joys of life itself, of loving and trusting others, of unexpected change and unexpected hope." Alongside that warmth, the novel is also described by its publisher as "unforgettably funny" — a blend of levity and emotional depth that characterises Backman's most celebrated work.

Who Will Find It Most Rewarding

Readers who responded to the community-and-grief dynamics of Anxious People or A Man Called Ove are the natural audience, but the dual-timeline architecture and the centrality of visual art as a narrative device give My Friends a distinct shape. Those drawn to stories where an object — here, a painting — serves as the hinge between generations and strangers will find the premise particularly well-suited to their tastes. Readers who prefer more plot-driven fiction, or who find Backman's characteristic blend of sentiment and comedy uneven, may find the novel's deliberately ruminative pace a challenge; some readers, as noted in broader commentary on Backman's work, respond differently to his emotional register depending on how much they connect with his style of warmth. At 448 pages, the novel is substantial, and its dual-timeline construction asks readers to hold both strands in patient suspension before they converge.

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