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Lori Gottlieb

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Lori Gottlieb is an American writer and psychotherapist. She is the author of the New York Times bestsellers, Maybe You Should Talk to Someone and Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough. She also writes the weekly “Dear Therapist” advice column for The Atlantic and is the co-host of the iHeart Radio podcast "Dear Therapists." Her TED Talk was one of the most-watched talks of 2019.
On LuvemBooks, we've reviewed Maybe You Should Talk to Someone.
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Lori Gottlieb is an American writer and psychotherapist whose work sits at the intersection of clinical insight and personal memoir. LuvemBooks has reviewed one of her titles: Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: The Workbook, a structured companion that translates the ideas from her bestselling book into practical self-reflection exercises — a format that reflects her broader approach of making therapeutic concepts accessible to general readers. With an Amazon reader rating of 4.6/5 across hundreds of ratings, her work has clearly resonated with readers looking for honest, professionally grounded guidance on self-examination.
Where should I start?
If you're coming to Gottlieb's work for the first time through what LuvemBooks has reviewed, Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: The Workbook is a good entry point if you're looking for something active and hands-on — it's designed to be worked through rather than simply read. That said, most readers would benefit from starting with the original Maybe You Should Talk to Someone memoir first, since the workbook is built as a companion to it. The workbook carries an Amazon reader rating of 4.6/5 from over 600 ratings, which suggests it holds up well even for readers who come to it independently.
What's their writing style?
Gottlieb writes in a voice that is candid and self-aware, often turning the lens of analysis back on herself rather than positioning herself as a detached expert. Her work tends to blend clinical observation with personal narrative, making abstract psychological ideas feel grounded in real human experience. In the workbook format specifically, she shifts into a more structured, question-driven style — prompting the reader to reflect rather than simply absorb information.
Books we've reviewed
LuvemBooks has reviewed one Lori Gottlieb title to date: Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: The Workbook, a practical self-help companion that guides readers through therapeutic self-reflection exercises drawn from her bestselling memoir. It holds an Amazon reader rating of 4.6/5 from 641 ratings.
What genre do they write?
Gottlieb works primarily in nonfiction, with her writing spanning memoir, self-help, and psychology. Maybe You Should Talk to Someone is her most celebrated work and sits at the crossroads of memoir and popular psychology, while Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: The Workbook — reviewed on LuvemBooks — falls squarely in the self-help and personal development category. Readers who enjoy narrative-driven nonfiction that draws on psychological insight tend to find her work a natural fit.
What should I read after the workbook?
After working through Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: The Workbook, the most natural next step is the original memoir it accompanies — Maybe You Should Talk to Someone — which provides the narrative context and client stories that underpin the workbook's exercises. From there, readers interested in the therapy-as-story format might enjoy Irvin Yalom's Love's Executioner, or those drawn to the self-examination angle might look at Brené Brown's research-based work on vulnerability and shame.
Who is Lori Gottlieb?

Who is Lori Gottlieb?

Lori Gottlieb is an American writer and licensed psychotherapist known for bringing her clinical experience directly into her writing. She is best known for Maybe You Should Talk to Someone, a memoir that weaves together her own experience as a therapy patient with the stories of her clients. Gottlieb also writes for publications including The Atlantic and hosts the advice podcast Dear Therapist, making her one of the more prominent public-facing voices in the mental health space.

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