Sorting by category, not location
Kondō stresses the importance of gathering every item of a category from the entire house into a single pile, which helps owners confront that they often possess three times more than they realized.
Marie Kondō delivers a presentation and demonstration of the KonMari method at the Japan Society, followed by an interview and audience Q&A.
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Kondō stresses the importance of gathering every item of a category from the entire house into a single pile, which helps owners confront that they often possess three times more than they realized.
Kondō explains that folding should not merely compress fabric, but serve as an intentional act of conveying appreciation through the palms so that clothes can stand upright in drawers.
Kondō notes that while clutter issues are fundamentally universal across cultures, American households possess an overwhelmingly greater volume of children's toys compared to Japanese homes.
Kondō recommends starting children on tidying with folding their everyday clothes rather than organizing toys, approaching the technique playfully as if doing origami.
Kondō explains that tidying room by room or drawer by drawer is an endless trap. Instead, she advises gathering every item belonging to a single category from across the entire house into one pile so the owner confronts the true volume.
Kondō states that when evaluating possessions, one must physically hold each item in their hands. She explains that the body exhibits a noticeable physical lift when an item sparks joy, whereas holding an uninspiring object feels like a physical sinking.
Kondō stresses organizing strictly from clothes to books, documents, miscellaneous items, and finally sentimental keepsakes. Moving through this sequence gradually hones the ability to distinguish what truly sparks joy before reaching emotionally difficult mementos.
When introducing children aged three and older to organizing, Kondō recommends beginning with folding everyday clothes rather than tidying toys. Handling daily wear builds a clear routine and an understanding of returning items to designated spots.
Kondō notes that people frustrated by a messy partner or family member often haven't finished organizing their own belongings. She recommends finishing one's own tidying first and establishing strict, clear spatial boundaries for each person's storage.
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